Dr. Lori Taylor
Registered Psychologist, College of Psychologists of BC (#1079)
In-Depth Psychotherapy
APPROACH & SERVICES
My practice is called In-Depth Psychotherapy, and is managed via the services of Owl Practice (owlpractice.ca) I provide individual psychotherapy to adults in
50-minute sessions via video or phone (weekday, daytime hours).
You may already know what goals you are bringing to
therapy, but if you are not clear, I will help you with this process. After a few sessions, I will give you feedback
as to how I see the pieces of the puzzle of your life fitting together and suggest
what some realistic therapy goals might be.
Through collaboration and discussion, we will come to a shared
understanding and develop an individualized plan for your therapy. Common goals we might work on could include
connecting to feelings without becoming overwhelmed, letting go of habitual
beliefs and behaviors that are no longer helpful, and building more pleasant
feelings, self-compassion, and assertiveness skills.
I will bring my full attention and calm presence
to sessions; provide you with validation, compassion, and warmth; be
organized, reliable, and ethical; and offer you honest, direct
feedback. I will also encourage you to give
me feedback on how sessions are going and whether changes need to be made in
our work together. Sharing a few laughs
can also help build warmth and comfort.
Psychotherapy can provide a “corrective emotional experience,” in which you
are responded to in more helpful ways than you were in the past.
My hope is that we can create a strong supportive
therapeutic relationship, and that this will also lead to benefits in your
relationship with your self and with others.
I believe that finding balance or the middle path can
be important, such as with acceptance and change, or with compassion and
responsibility. Finding compassion for
what we have been through is as crucial as taking responsibility for improving
our lives now. Similarly, the path to
well-being often involves coming to accept where we and our lives are in this
moment, and then exploring to differentiate between what we are truly powerless
over and what we are actually able to change.
Related to this, I take an integrative approach to psychotherapy. For
example, to help people access and open up their feelings—and to build
acceptance and compassion—the therapy models I use include emotion focused,
psychodynamic, grief, and trauma-informed approaches.
To help people calm down and manage their
feelings—and to take responsibility to change their lives—the models I use include
cognitive behavioral (CBT), dialectical behavioral (DBT), acceptance and
commitment (ACT), and positive psychology.
Similarly, I encourage clients to focus on both symptom reduction or
elimination, and on the increased awareness, acceptance, and insight of deeper
emotional work.
If you are doing 12-step work, I am happy to help you
integrate that with your individual psychotherapy.
Some of the coping skills/tools I can teach you if you
wish include journaling, mindfulness meditation, self-compassion, assertiveness,
thought challenging and defusion, dream/art analysis, pros/cons table, savoring
and scheduling pleasant events, chair work/parts dialogues, & utilizing
music or photos in your work. I have
also developed a therapy tool called the Layers of the Onion Diagram, which I
can share with you if you are interested.
I believe that if we are open and curious, we will
discover that even the most confusing or self-destructive behaviors have a
positive intention or function at some level. For instance, many symptoms or
behaviors arise as attempts to avoid painful feelings, to feel more in control,
or to meet unmet needs. When the symptoms
themselves get out of control, however, we need to find other ways to take care
of ourselves.
In general, I try to
teach you what I know so that you ultimately will become your own therapist.
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